Love forms..!!

A love – it changes your world. It makes you dream with open eyes. You forget where you are. You feel like you have immense energy and you can fly. You break all the rules. You will change yourself just because your special someone wants it that way. A mortal becomes your God. You forget that he or she is just a human. You create exceptions. You challenge yourself to expand; to do what you have not done till date and to achieve what you have never thought you can. Your soul grows. Somebody’s safety becomes your prime concern. Somebody’s success becomes your key to happiness. You consider yourself the luckiest. Time stops. Even hours of talking won’t suffice. Every single thing about him/her, family details, food habits, believes, song choices - you listen & remember with the utmost interest. You create plans till death and even after death.

Then one fine day you realize that it is not just about giving. You want something in back. It was never just I love you. There was a silent question attached to it: Do you love me? Can you go public? Can you give me security? People ask me questions. I need my answers too. I can not afford to lose you but first of all at least tell me that you’re mine. Your expectations can not be fulfilled. You know that you’re lovable but destiny does not approve. You had never thought that a day like this can also exist. You see no meaning, no purpose in life. When tides of pain lose its hold, you understand there is more to life. If you can handle this, you can do anything. You need to think about other aspects in life. Nobody can ever become your God. God is that ultimate power that has made you strong in your bad times and you will have to grow to respect this Power and make others strong too in their bad times. You learn lessons and move on.

There is one more type of love – you are not much concerned. It’s about the other person. You’re given importance. You’re told that you’re beautiful. You are praised. You are cared. Even though your instinct restricts you, you go forward because it satisfies your ego. It ignites your fantasy world. You like being into this phase because it gives virtual happiness. You think you can achieve certain things which are not satisfied till now. You take a step forward and a door of surprises opens! It is your turn to say ‘NO’.

You understand that it was a world of illusions; you tried to touch it and it broke like a bubble. Nobody was wrong but that is how this was designed to be. It makes you mature, makes you neutral. You understand you need to live with open eyes. It is not being anti-emotional, it is being aware.

And again there is one more type of love – you don’t need to judge it is right or wrong. You get signals from universe to go ahead. You’re blessed by elders. You share a common background, common platform and you can see a path to grow. It sets you free.

It is two-way. It is one, not shared and permanent. You can become a kid and can become a king when you are together. You can fight without having fear of losing; you can love without fear of getting hurt. Your mind, body and soul are shared. Your every habit is known. Every reaction is predictable and even unpredictable reactions are handled with wisdom. You get inner peace, don’t hold grudges or complain for anyone and wish to express gratitude.

Love is such a critical thing to understand even once and I’ve tried to explain its 3 forms.

First is growth, second is pain and third is LIFE.

One thing is sure: the form of love you get, becomes a decisive factor in the way you’ll be formed. :-)