A journey of guilt..!!

 Motherhood is a journey of guilt. Had I done this, it would have been better for my child. Had I feed him this, it would have been better for my kid. Sometimes a baby seems to cry unnecessarily or turns stubborn. A mother may react furiously and feels frustrated. But an hour later she understands that a baby was behaving like this because she was hungry/frightened of something/ needed attention or had some other valid reason. That comes in a mother's known error database, she repents and a mistake is never repeated again. In a process, she learns to see things with different aspects. She understands that what is seen is never complete. There are different perspective of a truth. People who have cheated her, hurt her or saddened her might have their own reasons. It seems frustrating at the front, but they might have different set of reasons to behave in that manner. It may not nullify the anger inside her but definitely makes her wise enough to dilute them all. Love is a fountainhead of wisdom and only by loving constantly one expands his/her horizon.